Choices have always made my life complicated. The other day, I was thinking about setting my career path. To my surprise, I realized that, off lately, I have started keeping my options open. Whether it was an MBA or job, I had cushioned myself with a backup plan. I was beginning to understand the fundamental flaw.
Back in my college days, I never had this approach. I always knew I would make it through, even if I started at the 11th hour of the day. Just have a look at this famous Calvin & Hobbes strip:

Same was the case with me earlier. I had outperformed my own convictions when a challenge hovered upon me. I had mastered the art of crisis management, even though it was I who created that crisis in the first place. I left myself with no option but to work on it with the best I have. Handling life this way not only kept me agile, but also brought a subconscious superlative out of me. It never allowed me a “chatak bari” (an escape window) for running away from the challenge.
This reminds me of the incident I read somewhere…
“When Alexander the Great reached the sea shore in Persia, the opponents outnumbered their miniature troupe. Thus, he gave orders to this army that go back to the sea and ‘Burn the boats’. Without the moment’s delay the men obeyed him and when they returned, Alexander told the most obvious yet a stimulating thing: We go back in Persian Ships or we perish here. What followed is famous history today. They won convincingly against the fieriest opponents. “
Another live stimulus, I will quote here, is Cricket. Everyone remembers the historical Cricket Test Match between India and Australia, wherein after a FOLLOW-ON, India went on to win the test match and the Series. It was a classic example of being pushed into a corner and in the process coming out as a survivor.
Breaking the shackles, as one of my friends, rightly said to me is the key. We need to be in critical make-or-break scenario to reach the pinnacle. Always on the edge!!!
I urge myself to go back to those days where I run towards a single goal, a fulcrum, an express way where there are no possible deviations.
This is where I think I am lacking now, the fire to procrastinate things, looking continuously for options, hoping that things would turn out my way. Procrastinating would help me shun away all my options and work towards that pen-ultimate thing in life. I would then loose all my options and what would be left would be the right way to choose. Lastly, I would not just hope things to turn out my way, I will work for it to happen MY way.
Just for once I want to BURN MY BOATS!!! Do you feel the same?? Do comment...